Well you live and learn! Seriously we all spend time with each other and talk about what the band's like, what the beer is like and who IS that girl/boy/?? in that outfit over there!
I mean beyond your other half I've no idea about your family. Now this isn't a bad thing and doesn't make us less freinds, becasue I value you & R very much, but sitting down and discussing the lifetime traumas and roads not taken aren't usually top of the list when you're getting to know people are they?. I actually sometimes think people know too much about me so I've tended to reveal less these days.
Am I right or wrong on this? I don't know. Maybe LJ gives us a chance to be more honest up front? Should we be doing this in our face to face social life? (i'm talking a more general 'our' here)?
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Date: 2004-08-10 10:31 am (UTC)I mean beyond your other half I've no idea about your family. Now this isn't a bad thing and doesn't make us less freinds, becasue I value you & R very much, but sitting down and discussing the lifetime traumas and roads not taken aren't usually top of the list when you're getting to know people are they?. I actually sometimes think people know too much about me so I've tended to reveal less these days.
Am I right or wrong on this? I don't know. Maybe LJ gives us a chance to be more honest up front? Should we be doing this in our face to face social life? (i'm talking a more general 'our' here)?
Any Thoughts anyone?