Well yes I did, but sheffield ceilidhs are more like home ground rather than being in some distant part of the UK.

Anyway it got me a very good friend for life and more. That's what I mean. I need to be in surroundings where my confidence is on top form so I can make the connections that I am actually very good at. I loose so much being in places where I'm unsure of myself.

Sub-text I am really bored being on my own and I want to focus my social life again on areas that are actually sociable!